Ever have those days when you feel as though you are being pulled in a thousand different directions? By the end of the day you feel as twisted as a pretzel, as intelligent as a scarecrow, and about as brave as the cowardly lion. All you really want to do is dissolve into a pile or tears and soak forever in a warm bath while the world is locked far away.
You will face many of these as an affiliate marketing mommy. Making the decision to work from home is a difficult one for many. We all come to this decision from many different directions. Most of us can agree on one thing we feel an incredible amount of pressure to succeed. To prove to the world that we are indeed worthy and that we can have it all.
Maybe you were one of the women out there burning bras not too terribly long ago. Maybe you've left the corporate rat race for a more sedate pace. You might even be one who was bent on a career until motherhood gave you a new calling. Wherever you are coming to the role of affiliate marketer from your goal now is to find balance and peace in that role.
For some this is a job in itself. There is the need to be mommy that is constantly at battle with the need to provide for your family financially and also to have something that is yours. Something you can be proud of.
Your affiliate marketing efforts in their own way become your children too. You are proud of them when they succeed and want to show the world. You are crushed when they fail and want to nurture them into the successes you believe they have the potential to be. You pour your heart, soul, blood, sweat, and tears into the building of a successful campaign and it is hard to send it out into the great big and bad World Wide Web to see if it can stand on its own merit. When it succeeds though, the pride is immeasurable.
The next time you feel like a pretzel for your efforts at giving 100% to being an affiliate marketing mommy, when you feel as though you are failing at both, what you really need is to step back, take an afternoon, day, or even a weekend away from affiliate marketing and just be mommy.
You need to feel as though you are giving your best effort to both in order to be the success, in your mind, that you really want to be. The most important thing about being an affiliate marketing mommy is that you find the time to be the mommy you want to be to the living breathing children at home.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
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